How to discipline your wife, yes, the christian approved way!


Folks, I guess some of my readers are christian and I have good news for them. I hear they believe in the traditional marriage [I don’t know what that is] and now a christian group has come up with what I don’t know where to classify. It can qualify as soft porn or domestic violence depending on where you stand on this matters. It is called Christian Domestic Discipline and their statement of objectives, if we can call it that reads

This website is intended to provide a refuge for those interested in a Christian Domestic Discipline marriage. Here they might find information and share fellowship with other CDD couples without having to wade through pornography, warped practices, or distorted ideals of what we believe God created for marriage. This site is not the typical “spanking” site prevalent on the web. This site focuses mainly upon improving marital relationships by sharing the guidelines and marital roles listed in God’s Word.

For those of you who haven’t heard of this wonderful site, please if you allow me

CDD

Spanking for Jesus

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As Onyango Makagutu I am Kenyan, as far as I am a man, I am a citizen of the world

35 thoughts on “How to discipline your wife, yes, the christian approved way!

  1. themodernidiot says:

    HAHA I just knew by your post’s title this was going to be a laugh riot, and sure enough, sir, you did not disappoint!

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  2. Mordanicus says:

    Domestic discpiline is not necessarily a “christian”, I once found on a blog or forum a statement of a woman who claimed she and her husband practices DD while the were “devout atheists” (sic). According to spankingart.org:

    The term domestic discipline (abbreviated DD) is usually used to describe an agreement in adult relationships where one or both partners recognize a need for discipline and explicitly want the other partner to punish them for wrongdoings. […] Domestic discipline is consensual and therefore does not constitute domestic violence.

    Further they claim:

    Most couples who practice domestic discipline seem to favor the M/F variant, but of course F/M, F/F or M/M are equally possible. It is also possible that both partners subject themselves to the same set of rules and consequences, in which case both will effectively give and get spankings depending on whoever breaks a rule.

    Source: http://spankingart.org/wiki/Domestic_discipline

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    • makagutu says:

      Interesting, I get to learn new things ever so often. Up till now I didn’t think there are couples who would consider this a part of relationship agreement especially as a way to exact discipline on an errant partner! But as they say, each person his/her own.

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  3. john zande says:

    What Tenets do we Accept? God’s perfect, complete, and inerrant Word.

    OK, i see a problem there… this is going to end in tears.

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  4. melouisef says:

    Is this only for men to do the disciplining?
    Sounds like domestic violence to me

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    • makagutu says:

      Well it starts with men are the heads of the family, and they believe in traditional marriage, am not sure that leaves room for women to do the disciplining but I could be wrong

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    • Mordanicus says:

      There is also something called “Loving Female Authority”, in that lifestyle it’s the woman who disciplines the man. And the “Spencer Spanking plan” provides that both the man and woman should discipline each other.

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  5. aguywithoutboxers says:

    My friend, you never cease to amaze me! Where do you find these? These folks are serious! Just when I thought there was nothing left to surprise me! Much love! πŸ™‚

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    • makagutu says:

      Don’t give up on surprises, there will always be something to surprise you my friend. I visit many sites so I happen to find some interesting, educative and absurd articles

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  6. Noel my friend, right when I thought to have seen it all…

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  7. violetwisp says:

    That is a great find! Although very worrying …

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  8. Discipline is all fair and good, as long as its consensual.

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    • makagutu says:

      does it have to be physical?

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      • It depends on taste and lifestyle. As someone who lives the D/s lifestyle the physical aspect keeps the romance alive. The difference between a Christian couple who does this, and my husband and I. Is that a Christian woman may not necessarily, want to experience such things, but she may do it just because it is accepted in her religious community. If a woman, is not into it, it can become hell for her. However, if its done through consent and love; both parties may experience the benefits of such a lifestyle. Many women love being submissive to their men, however, it has become a non-politically correct truth to admit.

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        • makagutu says:

          Thanks for sharing. I honestly didn’t know there was such a practice for whatever reason.
          If someone chooses to be submissive, each person his/her own, but, I wouldn’t support a situation where one dominates another for whatever reason unless it is consensual.

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  9. Ain't No Shrinking Violet says:

    I just stumbled across this post, and am rather gobsmacked by that CDD website. This doesn’t sound like BDSM fun and games….it sounds like men being given permission to hit their wives, by the authority of God. I suppose it’s been practiced since the beginning of christianity, so maybe it’s just shocking for me to see it all written out with scriptural references attached. GOD IS LOVE though, right? I guess that means it’s ok to beat your wife for her own good.

    I find it all very disturbing. I’m certain there’s no permission given for a christian woman to beat her husband (which would also be disturbing).

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    • makagutu says:

      Vi, that would be asking the christian too much. Their god does not allow the wife to talk in the presence of a man, how would she be allowed to beat her? She must submit even if it takes her to the grave, submit submit!
      I think it is crazy

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